It’s all very odd.  This life is so, so strange. It is so beautiful and so ugly all at the same time. It is so hard, and really so easy, all at once. It’s so very strange thinking about everything in one big picture. Do you ever do that?  Do you ever stop and catch yourself and think, like, does this really matter. Should that really make my blood boil? Do I have any “perspective”? What is going on here?  I mean, really, think about it, get some perspective and pause before reacting.  It’s seriously amazing how on November 20, 2017 I would have let a rude comment by a stranger set the tone for my whole day, maybe even my week!!! I’m not even kidding, cancer gave me perspective.  Sure, I still get worked up over things that don’t matter, sure, I still get my feelings hurt, I still over react.  But I can tell you my perspective is a lot more in check now compared to what is was.  I’m not trying to boast, trust me, I have very little to boast on.  But, there is a lot of beauty in a simpl